Dementia is defined as a progressive loss of mental functions, such as memory, reasoning, social skills and emotional reactions. Coping with dementia can be very challenging. Dementia does not only affect the person having it, but also the people surrounding him/her. Family members or care givers caring for the demented person may be prone to extreme stress. As they see their beloved ones becoming more estranged and distant, they may feel alone, angry, hopeless and depress. The consequences in caring for a person with dementia will greatly affect the whole being of the care giver. Here are some tips you can use in dealing and coping with patients with dementia:
- Attend to your own needs first
You cannot help anyone if you don’t help yourself first. So before caring for your patient, take care first of your physical and mental health. Get enough sleep and exercise. Eat well and also try to socialize in any way you can. In this way, you will lessen burnout and getting overwhelmed by the whole situation. Do not hesitate in seeking mental health if necessary. You can also join support groups to help you meet your responsibilities effectively.
- Acquire information about dementia
Research a little about the process of this condition. It will help you prepare in taking care of your patient because you already have an idea in what to expect in dementia.
- Respect and understand the patient
The most important thing about dementia patients is their self-esteem as they struggle for acceptance. So you have to understand that they are still a person and not just an object of nursing. Show them that you understand them by taking responsibility, orienting them from time to time and setting limits. You may deal with them in an adult manner as long as you don’t embarrass them.
- Create a daily routine that is attainable for the patient
The goals for your patient should be in an achievable framework in order to activate him/her. Your patient’s rituals should be without too little or too much demand.
- Let the patient do what he/she can do for him/herself
In order to retain the patient’s ego or self-esteem, you need to still let him/her do things alone, with your support of course. As long as it is harmless, make him/her use of his/her capabilities that she/he may still feel that she/he is important.
- Be physically close
Dementia patients can also have feelings of loneliness and isolation. So give those touching gestures and eye contact from time to time to your patient. You may also show your feelings to create a warm sense of closeness and security.
- Do activities that you and your patient enjoy
Plan activities that are appropriate for your patient’s level of functioning. You can both do walking, singing, dancing, baking or listening to music. Make sure to do it in a relax manner so your patient will not feel frustrated. The goal here is to make your patient participate and make him/here useful.
- Work with the patient’s health care team
Take an active role with the patient’s physician and other health care professionals. In this way, you can get ideas and support on how to take care of your patient.
If you are interested in this topic than read more about the difference between dementia and alzheimer.
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Jul.13,2010
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